By Josie Brown
School returns every September, but when it comes to teaching a guy what you want in bed, class is always in session.
Take care, however, and remember that men don’t like lectures (unless you’re playing the naughty school teacher) but they do welcome any and all information about what makes a woman hum with sexual satisfaction.
Here’s a quick passion primer:
Lead By Example
This is always the best approach. For instance, set the mood in the bedroom. Candles, music, some special yummies like strawberries and melted chocolate are always a smart start. A little wine and the sweet sexy words that you whisper in his ear will have him purring like a found kitten.
Talk Dirty To Him
Let him know all about your needs and desires. A woman’s body takes a little TLC to turn on and heat up, so don’t be afraid to speak up! Start by saying, “I love it when you do this...” or “It feels great when you do that...” This will cause him to instinctively rise to your suggestions.
Big hint: sexy suggestions are very different from giving over-heated demands. Even if you find yourself in a frenzy, remember that no man wants to get into bed with a sex kitten who transforms into a boot camp instructor. If you’re shouting “faster, slower, higher, or lower…” constantly, then chances are neither of you are having a good time.
Never Compare Your Partner To Another Guy
Don’t ever say something like, “You’re so much better than any guy I’ve been with..” Men take their sex very personally. They may act flattered, but in their feverish minds they quickly begin to wonder, “How many guys is she comparing me to, and when will I be replaced by the next guy coming up the ladder?” Simply let your body do the talking. Soft moans, loud groans - be natural!
Train Him Not To Roll Over And Play Dead After His Orgasm
Introduce him to little sex games that will continue to arouse his interest. Men stupidly assume that women function sexually in much the same way as they do. Of course, you know better, so show and show rather than show and tell. Rubbing, nibbling, licking demonstrates to him how you would like much the same.
Teach Him The Joy Of After-Sex Snuggling
Make it something that he loves by rewarding him with some special favors of your own. Show him a few places where his touch has a magical power over you and where the gentle lick of his tongue pleases you beyond his imaginings. Then do the same for him.
In truth, men live to please their mates. Oh sure, they love the feel of their own powerful orgasms. But you can move his focus above and beyond that momentary explosive release.
You can teach him to master the art of love.
It’s a course in which every man (whether they will ever admit it or not) is hoping to receive an “A.”
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